About Mark

Mark Tinley
Licensed
Marriage & Family Therapist

About Me

I'm a licensed counselor who has been in private practice for 18 years. Before becoming a therapist, I spent 22 years in the corporate world at a Fortune 100 tech company after earning my undergraduate degree in engineering. I also lived in Hong Kong for a year and a half, and I'm married with four children.

This combination of experiences—corporate career, cross-cultural living, family life, and clinical training—shapes how I work with clients facing career transitions, family challenges, and major life changes.

My Own Journey

I've experienced my own frustrations: unfulfilled hopes, wanting more from life, not knowing how to bridge the gap between where I was and where I wanted to be. Through personal work, I've learned to better understand myself, express my needs, listen to others, and respond thoughtfully rather than reactively.

My Approach

I'm empathetic but direct. I'm genuinely curious about your story and believe people can change when they're motivated. I'll be straightforward—no sugarcoating—but always optimistic about what's possible. I have a sense of humor (sometimes ironic or dark) and a deep belief in accepting what we cannot change while taking action on what we can.

Counseling has helped me, and it can help you—if you're willing.

My Philosophy

We're all works in progress. We don't ever truly "arrive"—even when we get what we want, we eventually want something else. Life is about the journey. Living in the present, actively pursuing what matters, facing fears, and not always avoiding pain—these are essential to living a rich, full life.


License

Marriage and Family Therapist
License # 52487
Board of Behavioral Sciences, California

Training

Certificate in Dynamic Psychotherapy
Newport Psychoanalytic Institute

Family Therapy Training Program
Southern California Counseling Center

Gestalt Training Program
Gestalt Training Institute

Education

Master of Arts in Clinical Psychology
Antioch University

Bachelor of Science in Electronic Engineering Technology
California State Polytechnic University

Tau Alpha Pi National Honor Society