Most people don't understand the real reason they've sought help - Business Insider
- In marriage counseling, many people try to explain how their partner is the source of all their issues, and how their partner needs to change.
- But couples therapist Peter Pearson says he tries to disillusion clients, and help them realize that they might also need to change.
- It's much easier to focus on what your partner is doing wrong than to focus on how you contribute to their problematic behavior.